FLIP FLAP ROTI PRATA

Recently, I saw how words can be twisted and turned to one's advantage. Even words the person said before will be be turned around and put in another manner, all to the person's advantage. This flipping and flapping makes me think of ROTI PRATA. Very apt for people like that right down to the food's origins .

SYMPTOMS OF A FLIP FLAP ROTI PRATA HOMIEN SAPIEN

1) When he/she said "Lets do it, We can take the risk.."

Situation 1
when things go awry... She/He said : why did you do it? you are the one who insisted on doing it. You said it was ok to do it. (When from the beginning the person was agreeable and basically egged you on)

Situation 2
When things go well.. She/He said : see we should do this, I was the one who said this would be good.

2) When he/she said Why are we doing this? to something that was suggested by Him/Her
He/She said Why are we doing this? Are you sure ?

Situation 1
When things go well.... He/She said : Lets see if this can be further developed.. I was the one who encouraged you.. I gave the idea

Situation 2
When things go awry... He/She said : See , we shouldnt have done this in the first place, it was upon YOUR insistence that we do it


There you go. Either way, you dont win with a person like that. There is NEVER any side to a coin in this case.
Just like ROTI PRATA.. FLip Flap FLip, any side, you can eat it, with sugar, curry or plain.

Amazing Melbourne

Yep, back from Melbourne. I love the cool weather. It wasnt too cold when I reached Melbourne, though it did turn chilly when I was on my way back to Singapore. Indeed, Melbourne is pretty liveable. You get the good mix of the city life and the suburban life if you prefer a quieter lifestyle. I went to great ocean road with Jo, philips island and yarra valley with my spanish classmate, soon, and his family. Hanged out quite a bit in the city. Also, met felicia for breakfast together with soon on sat morning. Its so good to meet felicia, too bad I wont be able to meet her in shanghai later this yr. She'd be going to taiwan next year. We had a good laugh, cracking up. :)

The most amazing part about the trip was the surprise and unknown elements. Though I planned to meet up with friends like jo, soon and felicia, the most surprising part is that I made some new friends. Jo introduced me to her Singaporean friend , vonny and vonny brought her pal, JJ along. The 4 of us clicked instantly and we chatted for ages. I think the 'highlight' was friday when we basically stayed through the night at a 24 hr coffee place, lincontrol and chatted till morning 6 plus!. Thats like 8 hrs of solid connection. I am still amazed by it. I havent stay up this late for ages , chatting with pals.
Both of them are singaporeans, working in Melbourne now. They have been in Melbourne for the past 10 years. I admire that they are striking it out in a foreign place on their own. Would be nice to do that.

I love the sights in Melbourne, the nature , and the quaint little towns along great ocean road. I love philips island when we saw the little fairy penguins waddling back to their homes in the burrows. So CUTE! I also saw mating seagulls and their eggs..Also saw wild koalas really close , up front plus 'warnabee' ? (smaller kangeroo like creature.. i thought the name sounds funny, like 'wannabe'. :D


Melbourne wont be the same for me after this trip. Whenever I think about Melbourne now, I'd remember the lovely chilly weather, the sights , sounds, amazing mix of food and most of all the friends I've met and the friendship I've made.

Right here waiting for some more great times in Singapore, having your fav. local hawker fare. :)

Count Down to Melbourne

I am excited and apprehensive about trip to Melbourne about my trip this friday night... Excited cos I am taking a break, having a holiday in down under and its gonna be cold winter..Plus I'd be meeting some friends.. will be really fun..... Apprehensive.. cos I'd be leaving some work behind, which I'd pray hard to be ok, smooth going, no major mishap..

Anyway, I'd be checking my emails along the way during the break and still accessible on my mobile..

Whatever it is, I am glad about the break. :)

Horrible Resort, Redand Lang Island

Just back from my scuba diving trip at Lang tengah island (island between perhentian and redang) and had a horrid time. Traces of how stingy the resort is can be seen in the way operations are run.

1) Food served was substandard. First time I felt I need to fight for food at resort, else there would be nothing left. Though they say they can cook for u, but then its limited. Dishes served are mainly carbo based stuff.. with some miserable vegetables. weird looking fried sausages that look shrivelled up, fish was served at one of the meals but it was just the tails and heads.. even the bbq dinner was not really bbq dinner. Only sting ray was bbqed. and the rest are all fried stuff..
I think NS men have it better than me, at least their food is catered and of definite better quality!@#)@!

2) Noisy people. The resort was packed full. Some canton beng and hokkien beng were around. The most noisy of the lot was a guy we nicknamed Mr Pink because of his love for pink/red/purple t shirts. He was noisy in the boat (on our way to the island, he was the lone noise maker, and the rest of us were trying to sleep!) , noisy in the water (we saw him shouting when he was snorkelling near the resort), basically NOISY. (majority of the people were from insurance group was from penangwho won the incentive trip there. If i were the agents, I wouldnt meet my target on purpose)

3) We wanted late check out and that was the criteria we had when we first booked the resort. They said ok ok, but when we were on the island, they said have to see the wind condition, etc. They actually were thinking of putting us on the small speedboat back to mainland (and not a bigger boat). They asked if we wanted late check out, do we want lunch? and lunch cost 15RM! no thanks.. not for the crap lunch. In the end, the weather was rainy, and we had no choice but to check out early. It was fine.. There was not enough space on the boat and we stood the whole ferry journey holding on for dear life as the boat went thru the sea in the rainy weather) . ANother huge mistake on the resort's part : Over promise! Under deliver.


The irony of the whole trip was we had a very good time in trengganu. Checked into a backpacker inn while waiting for our 7pm coach ride back to singapore. The inn was v clean. 20RM for a bed and locker for half a day, with free internet access, plus there was cable TV. what more could i asked for ? Plus it was clean and there was air conditioning.


Lesson learnt? I will choose to go with my dive school, Mako, next time. The places they go to , or recommend are usually quite good. This trip just make me feel like diving even more!

The Golden Years Ahead?

Yesterday's sunday times seem to echo the tagline "The Golden Years Ahead" very prominently, with its special mention of Singaporeans who splurge on $580 risotto, flashy cars, million dollar condo, and the like. What the papers fail to mention is how many of such singaporeans are there?

We often forget the papers only report what its audience is interested in. Even the 'proper' and not 'tabloid' papers do that ok...
Hence, I'd take what I see in print , particularly the papers with a pinch of salt. Perhaps I am too much of a skeptic. or is it a case of sour grapes?

Yet when I strolled along orchard road, from grange road to botanic gardens on Saturday, I observed the myraid of landed properties and the size of these sprawling mansions. There are indeed many uber rich in Singapore. Whether they splurge on birdnest mooncakes (888 bucks each), etc , I wouldnt ever know since I am not in the 'inner clique'..

But then again, if I am THAT rich, I probably wont care what I spend on huh? Its only because I am not , that I am looking at all these... with hmmm... 'sour grapes' ? :p

When will man stop using God as a scapegoat?

I am very apalled to learn about the death of the south korean pastor who was killed by the Taleban in Afghanistan. I just hope that the hostages will be released soon, by some work of miracle... though I am not too hopeful.. I am not sure how the situation is like right now, I havent read any news. I hope that no news means good news.. The Taleban has even gone on to say they encourage more 'kidnappings'..

I also just read about the bombing in the red mosque in Pakistan.. All the violence commited in the name of God makes me wonder.. when will man stop using god as a 'scapegoat' for their own atrocities and selfish agenda?

I am not going to start 'preaching'. I am not hopeful that the violence will stop anytime soon. Just flip through any history book and its pretty easy to read about violence and wars. If it feels like there is more violence in this new 'generation', then I beg to differ. Its probably that we are more 'aware' now when we are 'older' (when we were younger, maybe we didnt pay that much attention). If some said the 70s were the golden era, alot of peace , etc. then I beg to differ again. Memories play tricks on us and those times were violent and turbulent too.

I suppose its 'safe' to conclude that it is man's sinful nature.. There is always a 'reason' however 'irrational' behind our 'actions'. Man is fully capable of rationalising any decisions made.. Furthermore concocting stories and glorifying the cause..

Technology may have advanced, lives may have changed. But we remain very much the same..

近 朱 者 赤 近 墨 者 黑 。。

http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn12343

Got this article from friend. From the way things go, does that mean I better make friends with skinnier people too (to balance up) and probably make friends with 'richer' people, to balance the 'wealth' level? Haha. Maybe huh?

The article reminds me of the chinese saying. There is , I think, some semblance of truth. If you make friends with people who are negative, invariably, you'd be influenced. Likewise, if everyone around you strive to excel and are 'high fliers', then you'd somewhat be driven as well to want to do so.

I suppose this is like 'group think'...

I dont like this conditioning, but I think I am still 'subjected' to it. Can I be like the 'Matrix' , and get out of the 'system that bind me' ?

Property Woes

My colleague has starting looking for an apartment. The current rental unit she is staying in may just go en bloc next year. In view of the prices that seem to be only increasing, not falling any moment, she thought she better start looking. For those who had bought their homes before the hike , they will most likely be very glad. For those with additional housing and who wants to take this chance to sell (since they already have a roof over their head), they can see themselves alot more richer. Some businesses are also hit . Gaia Yoga has closed its business, citing property rental hikes and inability to sustain business at current costs. (maybe also due to intense competition)

Hopefully the prices will be more reasonable a few years down the road? Or will it only escalate further? I shudder to think. I am not the kind to plan long term..Perhaps I should learn to plan now! But since I cant get an apartment yet, I guess I dont have to think too much about it.

I hope the prices will 'stabilise' soon. I think there is enough supply actually. Just that Greed and now Fear is driving the market crazy. That probably happens when 4 million and in future , maybe 6.5 million people are cramped on a tiny island.. Even 'brain waves' get affected and everyone just feel the 'impulse' to 'jump' when they see others 'jumping' ...:p (hence the faddish crazes that range from bubble teas, cinnamon buns, rotiboys and now donut factories.. singaporeans cant help but 'jump on the bandwagon' )

Poppy Power

Spidey came over to take some pictures of Poppy last saturday. Here are 2 of the pictures. He took like 19 in total!

Honours and the Lack of it

I asked my friend if he has honors degree and he told me he has. I asked if its a prerequisite for government sector jobs. He told me, because it is not honourable to work in there, hence its a prerequisite to have honors degree'. Haha.. I know it sounds pretty lame, but the lameness of the statement is really quite funny.

Another friend of mine is currently looking for jobs, and he sounded dismayed when the human resource person from a particular government sector asked if he has honours, why he could do master degree,etc, etc. He susbesquently told me , a manager friend of his told him, he shouldnt even include his master degree in his resume, and that he should have studied his basic degree well, etc, etc. .cos thats all the government will look at. That a master degree is only for those who are hardworking.. dont mean the person is smart..

If everyone thinks like this manager, graduate schools , Chicago business school, insead, to name a few , can all close shop. No one will be thinking of 'improving' 'knowledge' by going for extra courses, etc..since 'one would just look at the basic degree'.

Maybe the government works differently? Maybe this applies to only the government?Perhaps. All I know is if the dear ministers and the like wants the workforce to keep relevant and 'upgrade'.. then the mindset to only look at the 'basic degree' has to change... assessment will need to be made on a more rounded level.

That aside.. its indeed very stressful to go through interviews.. Its never fun to be 'grilled' by another party. If its any comfort, at least its not the "Apprentice' or 'American Idol'.. or any of those reality shows, when you are constantly subjected to scrutiny by other contestants, judges, tv audience, etc. So Interviews are really quite easy afterall huh?! :p

Wow, what a starting pay

If statistics dont lie , fresh graduates are are now said to enjoy starting pay of $2500, in some cases, this can be as much as $3000 or $3500. (The pay in the papers are usually taken from the 'brightest' , 'creme de la crop' high fliers).

No doubt this will leave a bitter after taste for some of us, who has started from much humbler 'beginnings',during the economic crisis that sees pay freezes, retrenchments and the like.

But taken from another perspective, its indeed been a good decade since we graduated. With rising costs and inflation, perhaps the increase in the starting pay is only understandable.

Wait! What about the rest of us still slogging with low pay that probably took us longer time to rise to the current levels these freshies are drawing? Oh well...as the saying goes, life is never fair.

All's not lost though. Just as starting pays are higher for freshies, it would probably be reasonable to see higher pay rise, etc for employees. If anything be, we better enjoy the current good times, before the next downcycle hit us again. Afterall, we mustnt ever forget, what goes up, will come down. All's a matter of time.

Nice Ending

I like how the last book in the harry potter series end. RK rowling has indeed tied everything up nicely. Great story

Blue Monday

Thank goodness today passed in a breeze. Was pretty blue day for me. NOt that things were not good. Its just a general state of mind. Feeling utterly regretful that I had 'wasted' my sunday sleeping away and doing nothing much, and having to face my monday and a truckload of work.. with impending deadlines that crept nearer and nearer with each passing day.

My weekend was good though.. Went to my friend's 'Hello Switzerland.. Goodbye Singapore' farewell bash on saturday. Was nice to chill out.

我爱我的国家!

Got this you tube video from Wolf. Thought its interesting so posting it here. On a different note, I heard a new song to be sung over national day this year. I thought its v nice. I wont be around to watch National Day Parade this year though. Would be in Malaysia for a diving trip. yeh. :D

Husband for Hire

Since Spidey mention about outsourcing, this reminds me of something I read about a 'husband for hire' business in the states some time back.

The novel concept created some uproar as it was unheard of.. In a sense, its a glamourised way of calling repair men, plumbers , 'husbands for hire' (I dont know what other 'plumbing' work they do though! :p) I heard the business is good. as there are indeed alot of single women, who would need such services of the 'handy' man around the house.. hence the term 'husband for hire'.

I am not sure if such a conce'pt can take off in 'prudish' , 'squeamish' Singapore. Perhaps if the terminology is changed, then it would be just like any other repair/handy' business. 'Husband for Hire' probably would come on too strong for our censorship board due to its innate "illicit" connotations..

What do I think of this? Well, it doesnt ring a bell for me, since I dont stay alone. If anything is spoilt, I'd turn to my dad.. That said, its indeed good to have a guy around the house! (Provided he can repair stuff! :p)

Central Mall

Went to central mall with my colleague and her friend to shop, but alas, was disappointed. You'd easily see the clothes sold at Far East Plaza just as well and you'd probably know that alot of those clothes are china made. Not that I have anything against china made.. but at the kind of hefty prices that the shops are pricing. I think no thank you! For that amount, I may as well pay for something of better quality.

Went to Tom Ton for black pig tonkatsu.. YUMMY. The pork is really tender and nice.. Lovely. On the way to the restaurant, saw a horrendous snaking queue outside the ramen place (forgot name, but supposedly v good). What is it with Singaporeans and QUeues? We seem to enjoy queuing.. You see a long snaking queue outside donut factory every night for the past 6 months and now this. Have we got too much time to spare?

Had an early night tonight. I must exercise and work away my fats. Next week I have yet another gathering , celebrating friend's birthday.. So More eating.. and that means I better work out harder!

Can such an arrangement work ?

Someone I know commented some time back that perhaps marriages shouldnt be forever but rather be made on a term basis, renewable once the term is up. For eg. Marriage based on 5 years plan, then both parties will live together as husband and wife for these 5 years. When time is up, then renew on how both parties feel at that point in time. The premise for such an 'arrangement' is that humans arent suitable for marriage now, particularly to face the same person day in day out for the rest of the person's life. Also, it will make 'both parties' work 'harder' and not take each other for granted, so as a result, the marraige will last longer. What do you think?

I think this arrangement wont work. This is like a halfway measure to a full commitment which is what marriage requires. How would the foundation for such a union be if its built with the premise that there could be no brightness of future? Many a marriage had failed because one or both the parties felt they were taken for granted and not given due respect. In such a case, I think even in such temporary arrangements, the union wont last since due consideration is already lacking in the first place.

I think all boils down to individual's mindset. The person who commented on that probably never had a wish to commit full time, hence such solution would work well. But for the rest of the population, marriage the good old style probably works better.

No matter what 'style' , ultimately its not the 'format' of it that determines whether relationships last. If the basic ingredients like respect, love, care, concern, consideration, communication (the list seems to go on forever huh?!) are not present, probably the union is a short lived one.

One conclusion : Humans are complex and tricky. Hence, tis not easy road ahead!

Ever saw someone you rather not see?

Met someone I rather not meet at an art opening today. Glad the person didnt see me. There were some occasions in the past when I experience this. A couple of times, I had no choice but to say hi, as the person (different people) had acknowledged me and I had to make small talk. You ever encounter that?

I rather avoid such situation rather than confront. Thats a problem , I know. Havent get over this habit..

Shock

Neko told me that a schoolfriend of ours had passed on. She was suffering from bladder cancer. Thats the first time I hear of this illness...

I am shocked at the fraility and uncertainty of life..

She was the same age as me.

Am reminded once again, never to take our blessings for granted..

Those Were The Days

A friend of mine was telling me about how she'd tear over this song.She just heard of it sometime in April. Oh yah, this song is no stranger to me. I am a sucker for songs in the 70s and 80s.. Hence, I am definitely familiar. I used to sing to it and each time I sing it, it reminds me of days gone by.. and I'd get all depressed and teary listening to it!

How about you? What songs get you teary?

The lyrics are as follows :

Those Were the Days

Once upon a time there was a tavern
Where we used to raise a glass or two
Remember how we laughed away the hours
And dreamed of all the great things we would do

Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way.
La la la la...
Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

Then the busy years went rushing by us
We lost our starry notions on the way
If by chance I'd see you in the tavern
We'd smile at one another and we'd say

Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way.
La la la la...
Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

Just tonight I stood before the tavern
Nothing seemed the way it used to be
In the glass I saw a strange reflection
Was that lonely woman really me

Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way.
La la la la...
Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

Through the door there came familiar laughter
I saw your face and heard you call my name
Oh my friend we're older but no wiser
For in our hearts the dreams are still the same

Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way.
La la la la...
Those were the days, oh yes, those were the days