Have you ever heard of these countries? I never, and yesterday my colleague showed me. You can find out more at these links.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suriname
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liechtenstein
One is like a 'money laundering' nation (sounds like 'lick - a - stain')and the other, suriname is a small country in south america.
The world is so BIG. We shouldnt just set our sights in Singapore indeed...
I always have this wish to live abroad for a few years and coming back to Singapore. Singapore is still my home, despite the shortcomings.But I'd like to have the experience of living on my own, abroad.
But alas, I never find that opportunity to stay abroad. (I did look, but nothing like that come up. Now, just make do with my job which involves a certain amount of travelling).
As my parents age and as I age (I am only a few years before becoming an ELDER in singapore context, HAHA), I find that the wish to stay by their side is more and more. Afterall, their time is limited, whether I like it or not, we all go someday.
I am not a fantastic daughter.. but I will try my best..
Friday, June 22, 2007
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Poppy
I have a naughty jack russell which some may find obnoxious, and perhaps stinky little dog. But he sure brings smiles to me.. I admit I am not very maternal, and thank god for my parents. If not for them, I wont have the ability to take care of poppy. Called home on tuesday, and my mum told me to talk to poppy.. huh? talk? I did, said' poppy poppy' over the phone, to please my mum.. and she told me he ran away.
My folks concluded that poppy find it strange that his owner is talking to him when he cant find her anywhere at home and ran away.. Funny huh? But I think its quite normal.. My friends who have dogs, talk to them, like they are their kids.. So I think my folks are not the only ones!
My folks concluded that poppy find it strange that his owner is talking to him when he cant find her anywhere at home and ran away.. Funny huh? But I think its quite normal.. My friends who have dogs, talk to them, like they are their kids.. So I think my folks are not the only ones!
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
The GAME
A friend of mine commented that 'bad guys get the pretty girls'. (He is a goodie chap). I think he said in a way that makes me think, if he has the means, he'd definitely like to date pretty girls. (who doesnt, if I am a guy, I would too :P) That just reminds me of a book I read some months back.
The book is called 'The Game'? Heard of it? Its a book by Neil Strauss. He was a geek who turned charmer. A few years ago, he learnt the art of flirting with the world's 'best known' flirts, attended many such seminars, etc. Subsequently, he wrote a 'tell-all' book about the gimmicks he learnt, tactics men employ to get 'chicks' , get laid (to put it crudely).
When I first saw the book, I thought 'big deal'.. boring, just a list of names these men picked up and laid. But when I read the details, i saw the manipulative stance, the emptiness of it all at the end, and the endless games that are been played out. The amazing thing is no matter where the games or tactics were used be it in Eastern Europe or America, the girls ALWAYS fall for the tactics.. (different girls of course, but tactics are the same). Even Paris Hilton got a mention in this book!
Though one may comment its highly deceptive and not sincere, who is to say in the game of dating the sexes, how real is real in the beginning? Arent many playing games when they first dated? Arent many still playing games, albeit unconsciously in their daily lives? Though thats would be another 'story' altogether.
Whats my point? I think given a chance, most men will love to have the chance or opportunity (women alike, would love to date rich prince charmings..:D) to date pretty gals, be Mr popular, if they know how. (judging from the ploys and strategies in the book, I should think so).
Though that's so, in the book's conclusion, games can get tiring, and ultimately the mask get torn away.. as neil himself much discover at the end of the book. After myraid of games, even the games get worn out, emptiness set in, and there seem to be nothing there left. The author ultimately got hooked up with a girl who wont fall for any of his games and was cold to him (Thats another GAME..), and demanding him to be his real self and he was.. nd he was happier for it. (Though it seemed they recently broke up)
Perhaps, we should have another book that uncovers all these 'games' ? haha,
Games are here to stay I think. Just the level of play thats different.. Though Ultimately, sincerity is most important.
The book is called 'The Game'? Heard of it? Its a book by Neil Strauss. He was a geek who turned charmer. A few years ago, he learnt the art of flirting with the world's 'best known' flirts, attended many such seminars, etc. Subsequently, he wrote a 'tell-all' book about the gimmicks he learnt, tactics men employ to get 'chicks' , get laid (to put it crudely).
When I first saw the book, I thought 'big deal'.. boring, just a list of names these men picked up and laid. But when I read the details, i saw the manipulative stance, the emptiness of it all at the end, and the endless games that are been played out. The amazing thing is no matter where the games or tactics were used be it in Eastern Europe or America, the girls ALWAYS fall for the tactics.. (different girls of course, but tactics are the same). Even Paris Hilton got a mention in this book!
Though one may comment its highly deceptive and not sincere, who is to say in the game of dating the sexes, how real is real in the beginning? Arent many playing games when they first dated? Arent many still playing games, albeit unconsciously in their daily lives? Though thats would be another 'story' altogether.
Whats my point? I think given a chance, most men will love to have the chance or opportunity (women alike, would love to date rich prince charmings..:D) to date pretty gals, be Mr popular, if they know how. (judging from the ploys and strategies in the book, I should think so).
Though that's so, in the book's conclusion, games can get tiring, and ultimately the mask get torn away.. as neil himself much discover at the end of the book. After myraid of games, even the games get worn out, emptiness set in, and there seem to be nothing there left. The author ultimately got hooked up with a girl who wont fall for any of his games and was cold to him (Thats another GAME..), and demanding him to be his real self and he was.. nd he was happier for it. (Though it seemed they recently broke up)
Perhaps, we should have another book that uncovers all these 'games' ? haha,
Games are here to stay I think. Just the level of play thats different.. Though Ultimately, sincerity is most important.
Tiffany's Graduation Pics
Was wanting to put this up for the past couple of weeks, but there was some error earlier. So here goes. My 18 yr old niece graduating and going to college soon.
She has grown so fast, now looking different career options. Its scary for me, because I still feel I cant provide much guidance for her, can only advise her to my best knowledge.
Monday, June 18, 2007
About Personal Ads
Was on the way home after spending some whopping amount on skincare, when I saw this newspaper headline jumping off at me. 22 yr old NTU 'rich' girl advertises for marriage partner on the net. What?! Am I seeing things right? Asked a couple of my friends what they think. Interestingly, 2 of my male friends just attribute it to publicity stunt, while 2 of my female friends said, if 22 yr olds do this, then what about us ?!
There you go, the difference between men and women. The men very rationally draw up a conclusion that its all for publicity (whether it really is so, thats another issue). Whereas women (including myself) thought emotionally about the age factor.
Skimmed through the lines from another fellow passenger's copy (my bad habit to read off others' papers on the mrt). The report also wrote ' If she is so attractive and young, need she advertise? she should have plenty of suitors, unless there's something wrong with her. '
But thats as good as saying, if one is so attractive, why would one join 'SDU' or dating agency , etc. Does advertising oneself invariably mean there is some lack in the person in the first place, hence the advertisement? And if one is old, then there is a reason why one should advertise.
Why do we think this way then ?
I dont have any answers. Can only point it to an inherent need for humans to procreate and the reality of the biological clock ticking away.
I am just amused at the difference in opinions.
There you go, the difference between men and women. The men very rationally draw up a conclusion that its all for publicity (whether it really is so, thats another issue). Whereas women (including myself) thought emotionally about the age factor.
Skimmed through the lines from another fellow passenger's copy (my bad habit to read off others' papers on the mrt). The report also wrote ' If she is so attractive and young, need she advertise? she should have plenty of suitors, unless there's something wrong with her. '
But thats as good as saying, if one is so attractive, why would one join 'SDU' or dating agency , etc. Does advertising oneself invariably mean there is some lack in the person in the first place, hence the advertisement? And if one is old, then there is a reason why one should advertise.
Why do we think this way then ?
I dont have any answers. Can only point it to an inherent need for humans to procreate and the reality of the biological clock ticking away.
I am just amused at the difference in opinions.
GSS - disappointing
Think GSS is rather disappointing.went to town on sat late noon before my dinner appt. Just see crowds everywhere, and I immediately felt claustrophobic. Cant imagine when the island should hit 6.5 million. Wonder how would I feel then?
Saw some special promotions on tiger air, and itching to plan some holiday trip in december this year. Alas, hard to find kaki. One of the pitfalls of been a single at my age is finding kaki to travel with. Plus its usually not that easy to coordinate leave and the place to travel to. Perhaps I gotta ask my mum to travel with me! Though she has mentioned that she would want to save the money for next year, for a trip to Brazil instead.
Caught the travel bug, keep feeling the urge to get away. I am probably making up for lost time as I havent gone anywhere for the past 2 years.
My photos from Manado can only be up in July. My friends can only pass me when we next meet for dinner on July 5th. So will share later.
Meantime, I would have to make do with whiling my time in Singapore.
Saw some special promotions on tiger air, and itching to plan some holiday trip in december this year. Alas, hard to find kaki. One of the pitfalls of been a single at my age is finding kaki to travel with. Plus its usually not that easy to coordinate leave and the place to travel to. Perhaps I gotta ask my mum to travel with me! Though she has mentioned that she would want to save the money for next year, for a trip to Brazil instead.
Caught the travel bug, keep feeling the urge to get away. I am probably making up for lost time as I havent gone anywhere for the past 2 years.
My photos from Manado can only be up in July. My friends can only pass me when we next meet for dinner on July 5th. So will share later.
Meantime, I would have to make do with whiling my time in Singapore.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
HELP! ITS June already!
HELP! Its June already! Cant believe how fast time has flown by.I havent done anything much for the past half year, save for working. I havent even been to the GSS sale. Anyone bought anything?
Monday, May 28, 2007
MOS on Saturday
Went clubbing in MOS on saturday with my friend's friends. It wasnt much fun, didnt like the music that much. It was too slow for me.. even the retro hits which I love seem v slow. I prefer hip hop music, or something faster.
It didnt help also that I was kept asking the question of how I celebrated my big 3 (one of the gals would be celebrating her big 3 in a couple of months). I cant recall much of any celebration.
I didnt have much fun. Perhaps I am really getting older? or Perhaps the company isnt right or the music isnt right. Anyway, will be a while before I go clubbing again.
(though I am looking forward to colleague's hen's night... we are going to gotham city, and see male dancers 'stripping' , gonna be so fun to tease her.. :P)
It didnt help also that I was kept asking the question of how I celebrated my big 3 (one of the gals would be celebrating her big 3 in a couple of months). I cant recall much of any celebration.
I didnt have much fun. Perhaps I am really getting older? or Perhaps the company isnt right or the music isnt right. Anyway, will be a while before I go clubbing again.
(though I am looking forward to colleague's hen's night... we are going to gotham city, and see male dancers 'stripping' , gonna be so fun to tease her.. :P)
Friday, May 25, 2007
Counting Down ... to Manado on 30 May
Counting down to diving in Manado on 30 May. Mum has been nagging me about diving, when she knew I am going to indonesia. Recent news reports stated huge waves in java area, etc.. But... Manado is in the sulawesi side, hmm.. of course I would worry too.. but I already paid for the trip.. Would hope for the best and pray hard!
I havent dive for 2 years.. Miss it. I wont forget my first diving trip back in university days.. That was really fun.
Looking forward to more diving...
I havent dive for 2 years.. Miss it. I wont forget my first diving trip back in university days.. That was really fun.
Looking forward to more diving...
Monday, May 21, 2007
My Niece Turns 18
My Niece, Tiffy, turned 18 on saturday, 19 May. It feels wonderful that she is turning sweet 18, and very scary for me, to know that she is almost like a young adult now. That means I am getting really much older! :P
She has a whole lot ahead and I just wish that she will find work that she enjoy. Even at my age, sometimes I find myself wondering what should be my path, what other career should I look into? What am I really good at? Sadly, I dont really know. I am just an average person, with not much of a sharp strength in any area.
Not to say that I am not happy where I am. So far so good. I suppose I cant complain. I have much blessings. A roof over my head, meals cooked with love, and great friends to hang out with. Also, work that I enjoy so far.. at least till I know what I want to do next.
Tiffy, I wish you well, may your wishes come true, and may you find your calling soon. Meantime, have a great celebration, enjoy the wonder of turning sweet 18.. and I look forward to partying with you soon!
She has a whole lot ahead and I just wish that she will find work that she enjoy. Even at my age, sometimes I find myself wondering what should be my path, what other career should I look into? What am I really good at? Sadly, I dont really know. I am just an average person, with not much of a sharp strength in any area.
Not to say that I am not happy where I am. So far so good. I suppose I cant complain. I have much blessings. A roof over my head, meals cooked with love, and great friends to hang out with. Also, work that I enjoy so far.. at least till I know what I want to do next.
Tiffy, I wish you well, may your wishes come true, and may you find your calling soon. Meantime, have a great celebration, enjoy the wonder of turning sweet 18.. and I look forward to partying with you soon!
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Shanghai
Extended my trip last week after my work is done. Stayed with a dear friend in shanghai. Was so fun.visited some art galleries, and went shopping. Qipu lu was very cheap. Bought tops at 45rmb and jeans for 45rmb (thats like 9 S$). Surprised to see a night market outside qipu lu when the shops are closed.. (qipu lu shops close at 7pm on weekends) and saw shoes selling for like 20Rmb. You can imagine I went mad shopping..
Its inherently more satisfying to spend like a king in places like that, compared to going to the States or Europe where I have to watch my dollar..
Next month, gonna be going to shenzhen for work. Will go in 1 day earlier to Hong Kong with my colleague. :D
Its inherently more satisfying to spend like a king in places like that, compared to going to the States or Europe where I have to watch my dollar..
Next month, gonna be going to shenzhen for work. Will go in 1 day earlier to Hong Kong with my colleague. :D
IR Photos from Botanic Gardens
went with a school friend to botanic gardens sometime back and took these pics. Was very hot , but fun. The Infra red photos are pretty dramatic..
Thursday, April 12, 2007
Some of my favourite sites
http://wwww.stephaniesyjuco.com/p_counterfeit_crochet.html
http://www.fashionisspinach.com/
http://www.bitsandbobbins.com/journal/
http://www.neetmagazine.com/
http://www.flickr.com/groups/wardrobe_remix/pool/
I like surfing these sites for their creativity buzz and quirky bits.
http://www.fashionisspinach.com/
http://www.bitsandbobbins.com/journal/
http://www.neetmagazine.com/
http://www.flickr.com/groups/wardrobe_remix/pool/
I like surfing these sites for their creativity buzz and quirky bits.
Tuesday, March 06, 2007
Shivers and Tremors
At 1155am , felt the whole parkway building trembling and shaking. I had felt giddy and thought I was suffering from a fainting spell. However, it isnt so. My colleagues too jumped up and felt the whole building swaying like a coconut tree.. (Maybe too exagerating huh?) Anyhow, we vacated the building and ran down the stairs with our wallets and handphones. Since its so close to lunchtime, we went for early lunch.
Subsequently when we are back in the office, there was a 2nd tremour, but this time, we didnt vacate.. think thats the after shock from the earthquake. Apparently, on a scale of 6.5 in sumatra.. Areas like Ang Mo Kio, East side and even Bukit Merah also experience such tremours...
This is the first time I experience this...
I wonder if Singapore would be submerged one day if the tectonic plates move again or if there is yet another Tsunami?
Subsequently when we are back in the office, there was a 2nd tremour, but this time, we didnt vacate.. think thats the after shock from the earthquake. Apparently, on a scale of 6.5 in sumatra.. Areas like Ang Mo Kio, East side and even Bukit Merah also experience such tremours...
This is the first time I experience this...
I wonder if Singapore would be submerged one day if the tectonic plates move again or if there is yet another Tsunami?
Tuesday, February 27, 2007
Lunch Meeting with NTU Friend
Had a lunch meeting with a friend from NTU, who had sent me a cny card earlier. Honestly, I have no recollection that I had met him anywhere before.Apparently, he found our first year CAC orientation list during spring cleaning and sent cny card subsequently. I think thats like 12 years back?!
Initially it was weird, but I guess lunch was ok. Found that he is looking to move back into engineering and no longer wants to be in prudential. Apparently he likes photography and is looking to set up a website. Yet another photography buff in the midst.
Think meeting friends from the 'past' often send me into waves of nostalgia.
I really wonder, what have I been doing for the past 10 years?! Everything seems like a dream.
Initially it was weird, but I guess lunch was ok. Found that he is looking to move back into engineering and no longer wants to be in prudential. Apparently he likes photography and is looking to set up a website. Yet another photography buff in the midst.
Think meeting friends from the 'past' often send me into waves of nostalgia.
I really wonder, what have I been doing for the past 10 years?! Everything seems like a dream.
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
Addiction
I am seriously addicted to watching dvds right now. Especially romantic comedies. Though I dont watch alot of the dramas, but I would re-watch those that I like (think I must have watched kss 5 times,full house 3 times and goong 5 times or more!) I still dont get bored of the shows though, even though I watch them so many times!
My friend said its because I miss out alot when I was growing up as a teenager, so I am making up for 'lost time'.. Is that so? I wonder.. but I know my juvenile tendencies certainly come across as laughable.
My friend said its because I miss out alot when I was growing up as a teenager, so I am making up for 'lost time'.. Is that so? I wonder.. but I know my juvenile tendencies certainly come across as laughable.
Friday, February 16, 2007
Korean Drama
Though I am slower as usual in catching on the craze, but lately I found myself watching a few of the more popular korean dramas (kim sam soon, full house, princess hours and 'shao nu cheng gong ji'). I prefer these dramas to shows like "winter sonata", "stairway to heaven", etc because they are cuter, light hearted and not so heavy. I cant bear to watch a series with tear jerking scenes at every corner, or a love story that has so many twists and turns it makes my head spin.
The love scenes in Korean drama are often very 'subtle' and heart wrenching. perhaps because the starting is difficult, the ending is often sweeter. :D
I have a friend who cannot stand such soapy series though. He thinks its superficial and cant understand the obsession with these dramas.
Went on the net to search for links relating to korean drama and found this http://www.koreandrama.org & http://www.hancinema.net Think these are quite good to read about the synopsis of dramas thats been screened and you can see how widespread this 'k-drama' bug has spread...when you read the comments by the readers.
If any of you has any good korean (I prefer funny cutesy types to tragedies) drama to share, please let me know!
The love scenes in Korean drama are often very 'subtle' and heart wrenching. perhaps because the starting is difficult, the ending is often sweeter. :D
I have a friend who cannot stand such soapy series though. He thinks its superficial and cant understand the obsession with these dramas.
Went on the net to search for links relating to korean drama and found this http://www.koreandrama.org & http://www.hancinema.net Think these are quite good to read about the synopsis of dramas thats been screened and you can see how widespread this 'k-drama' bug has spread...when you read the comments by the readers.
If any of you has any good korean (I prefer funny cutesy types to tragedies) drama to share, please let me know!
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Happy Valentine's Day
That dreaded day is here alas. I dont recall ever enjoying this day even when I was "attached". Its going to be just another day for me. I'd probably work late to finish my project. Just like what Rae had 'observed'..It would be a non-event for me. Though I dont enjoy the day, because it reminds me too potently that its going to be yet another normal quiet day with no SO anywhere in sight. I think its still an occasion with some merit. For one, its a day thats good for people wishing to express their secret admiration or love, especially for those who are not too brave.. Its also a day to be creative with expressing love and without risking been tagged as "corny" or "tacky"..
I wish all a Happy Valentine's Day nevertheless and hope you have a fantastic time with your loved ones today. For those who are single ,I hope you wont be spending it working late like moi!
Saying I dont "believe" in valentine's day would be hypocritical. Though I enjoy my freedom and single lifestyle, at the end of the day , I cannot deny that Love is wonderful and I truely hope that there will come a day when I can spend everyday in true valentine fashion.
I wish all a Happy Valentine's Day nevertheless and hope you have a fantastic time with your loved ones today. For those who are single ,I hope you wont be spending it working late like moi!
Saying I dont "believe" in valentine's day would be hypocritical. Though I enjoy my freedom and single lifestyle, at the end of the day , I cannot deny that Love is wonderful and I truely hope that there will come a day when I can spend everyday in true valentine fashion.
Friday, February 09, 2007
HUH?!
Oh, just a few days ago, I was on the phone with a secretary of a certain director in a Middle Eastern Petrochemical company. Upon hearing my surname , chua, his first reaction was " Are you filippino?". He explained that many filippinos have chua as their 'surnames' or 'middle names'. His middle name is 'chua' (as his mother is chinese)... I was wondering "Huh", I get this even on the phone?
You see, I am naturally tanned, and many times have been mistaken for malay, indian, flippino, cambodian, thai, laotian, burmese in the past, but never chinese. I got used to it since this is something I keep hearing since I was in primary school. My mum even told me one of my classmates in primary 1 told me to go to malay class when I was with him in chinese class. I stupidly went. I panic that day because I didnt understand a word of Malay! My mum told me this story sometimes and I thought I am just so Blur.. (thats why they call me blur queen.. even my mum also call me blur queen at times).
I guess I would continue to be mistaken for years to come. Perhaps I should learn some more asia languages like Malay or Thai even.. and be a TRUE BLUE 'ASIAN'. HAHAHAHAHAH
You see, I am naturally tanned, and many times have been mistaken for malay, indian, flippino, cambodian, thai, laotian, burmese in the past, but never chinese. I got used to it since this is something I keep hearing since I was in primary school. My mum even told me one of my classmates in primary 1 told me to go to malay class when I was with him in chinese class. I stupidly went. I panic that day because I didnt understand a word of Malay! My mum told me this story sometimes and I thought I am just so Blur.. (thats why they call me blur queen.. even my mum also call me blur queen at times).
I guess I would continue to be mistaken for years to come. Perhaps I should learn some more asia languages like Malay or Thai even.. and be a TRUE BLUE 'ASIAN'. HAHAHAHAHAH
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